Being A Virgin

Okay I've been holding out on this particular article for a while now. Maybe I'm a little afraid that my opinions on this particular topic is a little too strong for the public,then I realized no one is paying me to keep quiet,plus I promised to be real, that includes being 100% honest. Before I go further I want to make it clear that this article is mainly for my female readers. Guys, we all know you don't care about being a virgin or not,society does not judge you or care about when you loose IT. But for those of you who care,please enjoy.
There is nothing terrible about being a virgin, girls you do not have to feel obligated to loose your virginity to any Tom Dick or Harry if you're not ready. I know a lot of people don't see virginity as a big deal and I'm not about to go down that road of argument (sorry). I feel one should be ready and mature for IT before doing IT. There are lots of things that can make you regret your first time (person,place,time,how). So don't rush to do something that is going to last a few minutes (yeah yeah boys, I know "IT lasts longer".You're lucky I didn't say seconds). I guess the reason why I'm all for waiting is because, having sex changes you in so many ways you can't even imagine,ways you don't even notice. And girls, please don't turn into sluts just because you've started doing IT.
I'm not going to say much on this. Just be safe, make sure you pick the right person who's going to take IT as serious as you take IT. Someone who's going to cherish the precious gift you just gave him. Someone who you love that loves you back and probably knows what he is doing, I heard the first time is painful gals (shh). Bottom line is make your first time a pleasant memory,something you can look back on and smile instead of something you look back on and be filled with regrets and sadness.
For those of you who lost IT in a regrettable moment or those of you who lost IT to a douche, I'm sorry. Come here (*hugs*). It's gonna be alright, even though you'll always remember it, don't forget that time heals all wounds. There are better guys out there, who would treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Don't let a guy make you feel worthless, you're special baby girl. Don't let that one mistake weigh you down, instead learn from it and grow.
Oh look at that, I didn't even express my strong opinions.