Being A Virgin

Okay I've been holding out on this particular article for a while now. Maybe I'm a little afraid that my opinions on this particular topic is a little too strong for the public,then I realized no one is paying me to keep quiet,plus I promised to be real, that includes being 100% honest. Before I go further I want to make it clear that this article is mainly for my female readers. Guys, we all know you don't care about being a virgin or not,society does not judge you or care about when you loose IT. But for those of you who care,please enjoy.
There is nothing terrible about being a virgin, girls you do not have to feel obligated to loose your virginity to any Tom Dick or Harry if you're not ready. I know a lot of people don't see virginity as a big deal and I'm not about to go down that road of argument (sorry). I feel one should be ready and mature for IT before doing IT. There are lots of things that can make you regret your first time (person,place,time,how). So don't rush to do something that is going to last a few minutes (yeah yeah boys, I know "IT lasts longer".You're lucky I didn't say seconds). I guess the reason why I'm all for waiting is because, having sex changes you in so many ways you can't even imagine,ways you don't even notice. And girls, please don't turn into sluts just because you've started doing IT.
I'm not going to say much on this. Just be safe, make sure you pick the right person who's going to take IT as serious as you take IT. Someone who's going to cherish the precious gift you just gave him. Someone who you love that loves you back and probably knows what he is doing, I heard the first time is painful gals (shh). Bottom line is make your first time a pleasant memory,something you can look back on and smile instead of something you look back on and be filled with regrets and sadness.
For those of you who lost IT in a regrettable moment or those of you who lost IT to a douche, I'm sorry. Come here (*hugs*). It's gonna be alright, even though you'll always remember it, don't forget that time heals all wounds. There are better guys out there, who would treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Don't let a guy make you feel worthless, you're special baby girl. Don't let that one mistake weigh you down, instead learn from it and grow.
Oh look at that, I didn't even express my strong opinions.

Let's Talk Linda Ikeji

Can someone please tell me why a successful woman would act so childish on social media? I used to look up to this woman as a fellow blogger. Now I'm beginning to question my decision. I honestly did not expect such from her.
Seriously though, how do you take a picture of your bags to show off your wealth and it turns out that the bag is fake, then you have the audacity to argue on social media and take more pictures? Do you have no shame? Does she honestly think that her instagram fight was a big improvement on her career?
I was shocked when she actually captioned one of the fake bag picture on instagram with ".....took another picture on my bed in my N500m mansion in banana Island" what's up with that? Linda if you are reading this, that's that Bullshit!! You don't say that, EVER!
This just goes to show that maturity truly doesn't come with money and age.  Linda I'm sorry to say but you lack maturity. I understand the anger one might feel when someone tells you that an expensive item you bought is fake, but that doesn't mean you have to stoop to their level. It doesn't excuse her behaviour at all. I mean she could use that money to help poor kids and give back to the society, instead she uses it to buy material things, as if that's not enough she posts it on instagram and acts childish. That's just sad.