Everyone in this world has a type. Don't kid yourself to think that you don't have a type. You know that thing you like in a person that you expect to see in your partner? Yeah, that's called having a type.
Now, I'm not saying that it's a bad thing to have a type, but sometimes that can be in the way of true love. Yes, I agree that sometimes it's not so much of having a type than it is having things you like and don't like in a person. Somethings are just a major turn off for me (not gonna bore you with details).
You need to step out of your way and stop obstructing your happiness. Girls, he doesn't need to be tall, fair and slim before you can love him. And guys, she doesn't need to have ass or boobs before you can love her. Try to see beyond the exterior looks. Get to know him or her beyond the surface. It is okay to be attracted to his or her appearance but don't let that be the only thing that you like. Think of it this way, beauty and looks may fade away but a person's personality cannot fade.
I would like to point out that there is no shame in being attracted to someone's appearance, it doesn't make you vain. What makes you vain is forcing yourself not to love a person just because of the person's appearance.
So throw away the "type" thing and let yourself find true love. I promise you,that if you look past all that, you just might see that person that you are meant to be with clearly..
Now, I'm not saying that it's a bad thing to have a type, but sometimes that can be in the way of true love. Yes, I agree that sometimes it's not so much of having a type than it is having things you like and don't like in a person. Somethings are just a major turn off for me (not gonna bore you with details).
You need to step out of your way and stop obstructing your happiness. Girls, he doesn't need to be tall, fair and slim before you can love him. And guys, she doesn't need to have ass or boobs before you can love her. Try to see beyond the exterior looks. Get to know him or her beyond the surface. It is okay to be attracted to his or her appearance but don't let that be the only thing that you like. Think of it this way, beauty and looks may fade away but a person's personality cannot fade.
I would like to point out that there is no shame in being attracted to someone's appearance, it doesn't make you vain. What makes you vain is forcing yourself not to love a person just because of the person's appearance.
So throw away the "type" thing and let yourself find true love. I promise you,that if you look past all that, you just might see that person that you are meant to be with clearly..
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